If you’re new to the chat lines and have yet to make your first call and go on your first phone date, this blog was created to hopefully help you feel more at ease. Getting on the phone and talking to strangers may seem funny at first even a little out of left pocket. This is because we moved away from phone conversations and instead have replaced it with social media and texting. Yet, talking on the phone is as natural as speaking with a someone in-person. You can meet all kinds of guys on the chat lines and make friendships and lovers! All you have to do to get started is call the chat line number and you’ll be instantly connected to someone new.

You may be wondering – What do I say? Well, it’s important to remember to be yourself. A good rule of thumb if you’re nervous is to ask open ended questions so the attention will be taken off of yourself for a moment and your new phone friend will have the opportunity to speak. You can also use active listening skills to make your new phone friend feel heard and cared for. Then you can also share about your life, experiences, interests, and more. It really doesn’t matter what you want to speak about as you can find other like-minded gays on the chat lines without a problem. If you’re speaking on the phone with a guy that doesn’t seem to be a good fit, then all you have to do is say goodbye and end the call. Then you can redial the chat line number when you’re ready to speak with someone new.

Some other things you can talk about with a new phone friend can be things that reveal who you are. Maybe you can talk about your favorite past sexual experiences and what you would do if money were no worry. No matter what you decide to talk about, just go with the flow and see where the conversation naturally flows.