Going to the club can be a lot of fun and you can find a lot of amazing men to makeout with and hook up with but if that is the core of how you meet gay men, it may get old fast. The same is true of bars. It can be fun to go out drinking and meet new guys but it can also get old if you want something more than a drunk hookup. You can call the chat lines and take an active role in the gay phone dating community. You can talk about your interests and see what other people like to do on their spare time. More importantly, you can build phone friendships and those people can support you and lift you up when things go awry. There’s a lot of fun to be had over the chat lines and the best thing about it is that you can put your feet up on the couch and relax while building friendships and lovers. You can talk to guys from all around the world and learn about their cultures and experiences as gay men. You can learn more about yourself and explore by trying new things and hearing about different experiences and perspectives.
There really are no limitations to what you speak about with others in the community and you can speak with other gay men through the chat lines whenever you want because the chat lines never close down. There are hundreds of men on the chat lines at any given time and you can experience what it’s like to know different kinds of guys. Every once in a while you may come across a guy on the chat lines that isn’t a good fit for you. That really isn’t a problem though, as all you need to do is say goodbye and end the call. You can always redial the chat line number when you want to speak with someone new.